Saturday, November 04, 2006

Prayer Breakfast



Today, our Tri-City Ministerial celebrated by praying for our Civic Leaders. A good group of pastors, Mayors, Councillors, Fire and Police Officials, MLA's and School Board Members enjoyed the comraderie. What a privilege it was to bow before God and ask His blessing on our Leaders. As He has told us to, we lifted them up to God and showered them with appropriate honor. Everyone who attended enjoyed the nourishment in body, soul and spirit. God bless our Governing Leaders, who daily sacrifice personal comfort to serve our cities. May you continue to live in God's peace, power and prosperity!

Pastor Ted Hagaard


I've included a letter from Pastor Jack Hayford, that he wrote in response to the accusations that have been hurled against his friend, Pastor Ted Hagaard. I heartily agree with Pastor Jack, and encourage us believers not to jump on the band-wagon of gossip and inuendos when we really have not heard the whole story. My prayer is that God will shine his light of truth on the situation, and vindicate the innocent. I also pray that He will continue to give His Shalom to Pastor Ted and his family, as well as to his church and ministry to the Evangelicals of the U.S. Church. Here's the letter:

November 3, 2006 Dear Ones-
Fellow-servants and Shepherds of Jesus' Flock:
Perhaps nothing has caused more dismay and compassionate concern than the recent announcements regarding Pastor Ted Haggard and allegations of inappropriate sexual involvement. Our brother has (1) transferred his senior pastoral role at New Life Church in Colorado Springs to his executive associate, (2) submitted himself to the governance of a strong body of spiritual leaders who will administrate matters of discipline, extended recovery, and eventual restorations, and (3) resigned as president of the National Association of Evangelicals.
As a member of the executive committee of N.A.E., of which the International Church of the Foursquare Gospel is a member denomination, I have participated with the committee in responding to Pastor Haggard's resignation. Accompanying this communiqué is the statement N.A.E. is releasing in this regard.
I haven't words to adequately express my grief over this circumstance. Foremost, I ask every leader in our movement to unite in prayer as the Holy Spirit stirs us to stand with the Haggard family, the New Life Church, and every individual or group affected by this disclosure. It is encouraging that Pastor Haggard has manifested a deep contrition and repentance, and has completely yielded himself to the wise correction, counsel, and care of brethren who will deal both righteously and redemptively.
The counsel of Galatians 6:1-5 calls us all to this moment in appropriate Christian support, and also provides a fresh call and reminder of our own vulnerability and accountability before God. Let us review these words perhaps, most wisely, upon our knees in a time of prayer at this crisis moment: "Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted. Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ. For if anyone thinks himself to be something, when he is nothing, he deceives himself. But let each one examine his own work, and then he will have rejoicing in himself alone, and not in another. For each one shall bear his own load."
As we move toward our National Church Family Prayer Meeting this Sunday evening, our souls are all the more being alerted to the demands of intercessory prayer in an era of seemingly relentless onslaughts and extraordinarily demanding times.
May God bless you all-and may we all guard our hearts with great discernment and humility before our Savior as we serve together.
Your brother and fellow laborer,
Pastor Jack Hayford

Gardening with God


I snapped this picture last week of my poor little Willow tree in our front yard. This tree is the great grand-daughter of the one I wrote about in my Life Journey book about 7 years ago. I purchased the dying Willow for only $5.00 at the nursery, took it home and tried to nurse it back to health. It's a long story, but the result was that when my Willow died that same year, it gave birth, at the same time, to 7 beautiful baby saplings. When we moved away from that home 14 years ago, I brought one branch with me to transplant in our new yard. From the tiny new tree, many others have grown, including the one here.

While pruning my Willow, I noticed these hundreds of little bugs crawling all over the trunk. Of course they made me reflect on the bugs that haunt our human souls. I don't know where they come from, but if we don't deal with them early, they will surely multiply and eventually destroy us. That's why Susan and I headed down to Rona and purchased some good insecticide. I applied the chemicals right away and will do it again in the spring before new growth appears. We have to do the same things with those little vermin who try to undermine our spiritual health

Halloween


Susan and I had a fun time at our daughter's home on Halloween. Here's a picture of our 6 grandkids getting ready to go out and do their Trick or Treating. (Fortunately they got lots of treats and didn't encounter any tricks-except from Papa) It was freezing cold, but a gloriously beautiful evening, as our grandchildren cruised the neighbourhood with their dads. Grandma and I held the fort at one house and Susan gave out treats at Kelly and Tom's home. The best part came when the kiddies returned and shared their many goodies with Nana and Papa.

I've included the article that I wrote for the Tri-city News about Halloween. I was suprised by the very positive response from several readers, and not one negative. I know that many Christians have a problem with the celebration, but we've always taught our children to keep looking for the good in things rather than the evil.

Halloween
October 29, 2006

A couple of days ago I was asking a young child what she was going to dress up as on Halloween. Her mother interrupted our conversation, saying “We don’t celebrate Halloween—it’s an evil day.”

I wasn’t surprised by her reaction and I certainly respected her opinion, but I myself have some very positive memories of Halloween. I’ll tell you why I like it, but keep in mind that we each are entitled to our own thoughts. I am not ignorant of some of the dark history behind some of our Halloween customs.

During my growing up years; in the years our own children were being reared and with our grandchildren, we’ve celebrated the fun of Halloween evening. As a young parent, as well as a young pastor, I used to take our girls along with a half a dozen other dads and their kids, door to door for the traditional handout of treats.

In truth Halloween was the best time of bonding that I ever enjoyed with our neighbours. We’d laugh together, enjoy the fantasy costumes (we always avoided dressing as demons, monsters and spooks—princesses, cartoon animals were our costumes of choice) set off colourful fireworks as families, and then go home and divvy up the candy and apples among the four of us.

Later, most of those same neighbours eventually became part of our church family. Our friendships were strengthened partly in the Halloween season.

But what about the pagan roots of Halloween? Doesn’t it go back to the time of the Druids, where they celebrated death, demons and the like?

I really don’t know. I’ve read at least six or seven differing accounts of the roots of Halloween—some very dark and others as innocent as the celebration of a new year. We do know that the Roman Catholic Church “sprinkled holy water on” (or Christianized) many of the pagan festivals from pre-Christian times. Christmas, Valentine’s Day and Easter are all holidays that began as Christianized pagan celebrations.

When Emperor Constantine took power as the leader of the European world in the fourth century, he knew that he could not stop people from celebrating, so he laid out Christian events and values and substituted them for the high festivals that preceded then. Sanhain (Celtic New Year) became Halloween, the evening before All Saints Day when we honour those who died for their faith. Lupercalia became St. Valentine’s Day, a time to spread love and joy to those we value most. Eostre (worship of the goddess of fertility) became Easter, a celebration of Jesus’ resurrection. And the Winter Solistice pagan festival of lights with its drunken parties, became the holy day of Christmas when we would celebrate the birth of God’s Son, Jesus.

As for Halloween, besides being a great time to say thank you for those who’ve laid down their lives for us and given us freedom to worship, it is also a good time to practice Christian hospitality. An ancient homeowner would never consider not giving generously to anyone who knocked on his door—why should we?

And what child doesn’t love using his imagination and playing dress up? I don’t know any.

Lock your doors and turn off your lights if you choose, but as for us, we will focus on the light, rather than the darkness. Have fun, enjoy your neighbourhood children, and be safe this Halloween.

Sunday, October 29, 2006

Foursquare Pastors' Conference



Susan and I spent this week up at beautiful Canmore Alberta at our annual Foursquare Gospel Church pastors' conference. This year the theme was "Dreamworks and Teamwork". Every other year, we hold a National convention or a Pastors' Conference--this year was just for the Pastors.

Because we all stay in one hotel, meet in the conference rooms, and usually eat our meals together, the heart of our time is spent in building strong friendships with each other. I love spending time across a table of good food, listening and talking with friends from Vancouver Island, across to Nova Scotia and up to Whitehorse. Everyone has their own story to tell about life and ministry in the various cultures where they live.

The meetings were very interactive with awesome times of worship, strong teaching from different ones of our own pastors and discussion. Often we bring in a plenary speaker from the States, but this time was just us, and that was a healthy change. We also spent Thursday evening honoring (along with roasting) our President Tim and Laurene Peterson. ( I have not laughed so hard in a long time.). Tim and Laurene are retiring this coming year, so our Denomination is in a significant time of transition

On Wednesday several of us drove to both, Lake Louise and shopped a bit around Banff for the afternoon. What a gorgeous country we are privileged to live in. The Rockie Mountains are wonder-full picture of the grandeur and power of God. But of course, it's always good to get home again!

Tuesday, October 24, 2006

Robert and Mary's Wedding

On Saturday, I was delighted to officiate at Robert and Mary's wedding. And I mean delighted! I haven't known this couple for a long time. They both came through our recovery ministry called Higher Ground. Robert and Mary have known each other and have been seriously considering marriage for several months, but he had not actually popped the big Question until a week ago. Circumstances were right for them to get married soon and so I suggested to him that we have an intimate ceremony in my office. Costs were a factor so that seemed good to both of them.

When he did take Mary out on a special date to ask for her hand and give her the ring, she was overjoyed. But she was caught off guard when he said "Let's do it on Saturday!"

Their friends wanted to do something to make the day very memorable, so several of them planned a wonderful wedding in the few days they had! This is one of many things I love about the Church. On Saturday there were about 50 guests, a stunning wedding dress , beautiful music, gorgeous flowers and all the appropriate decorations. The wedding went off without a hitch and afterward the guests enjoyed a delicious meal all provided by their friends! What a fitting tribute from their loved ones! Thankyou church for your love and generosity! One of the leaders in putting the party together remarked on how much fun it was and how smoothly everything came together. They'd just spent a whole year planning their daughter's wedding this summer, and this one came together in a few days! Congratulations Robert and Mary!

The Secret of Happiness


When I told my kids story, The Secret of Happiness, to the church last Spring, I was so delighted when Jenny Kirby came up to me the following week to talk. I hardly knew Jenny, except she is the daughter of a pastor friend of ours. She showed me a couple of sketches that she'd been inspired to do right after hearing my little story. I was bowled over by her talent as well as her willingness to illustrate the story for print.

This week Jenny and I met again to think about our joint project. Hopefully we'll be able to publish this lesson on generosity by the end of the year. I'm continually amazed by the gifting, talent and good attitudes of people in our church. Jenny is only one of hundreds who are willing to generously give away what God has given to them! You'll want to check out her web page @ http://www.jennykirbyart.com Jenny is a seriously talented artist. Here's the cover of The Secret of Happiness.

Pumpkin Patch


This weekend Susan and I had the privilege of caring for Jeremy's and Kristy's kids. We share them over this week with their other grandparents while our kids are on a business trip in San Diego. So Sunday after church and our Newcomers lunch, we headed off to the Pumpkin Patch in Maple Ridge. For the total price of $10 we came home happy and ready for a peaceful nights sleep with 4 prizes, a daddy, a mommy and 3 little children pumpkins.

On Monday after Jacob and Madeline were home from school, we carved them up and roasted the pumpkin seeds. A good weekend was enjoyed by all. We had to pass the baton on Monday evening, because on Tuesday were leaving for Canmore for our Foursquare Pastors' Conference.

Monday, October 23, 2006

And he can Sing too!


Actually I'm not sure if Jordan can sing or not, at least in front of people! We had Jeremy's and Kristy's kids for the week-end and Jordy was very excited and quite ready to "ding his dong" as he calls it, on Sunday morning 10 am service. I rushed from the 9 am service to see him and arrived just on time. Here's a picture of him "not singing" along with about 50 other preschoolers. What great entertainment as well as positive training for the children!

Children's Gifts


I'm especially cognisant right now, while I'm teaching my "Finding your Life Purpose" series, of the various gifts that have been wired into us, even before we are born. The wise king said, that "If we train up a child in the way that he should go, when he is old, he will not depart from it." What he was referring to was our children's basic motivational gifts. These gifts will point toward our life purpose.

I encourage young parents to be very aware of what gifts their children hint at even as young as 2 years old. Last week I was cleaning out the last of our summer annuals, while caring for Jordan, who will be 3 in January. I love to teach the children as I work along side of them, and so that's what I was doing with Jordy.

While busy with another project I was watching Jordan. He was still working with the flowers, and while he was doing what I had taught him, he was talking steadily. Listening more closely, I heard him repeating phrase by phrase what he had heard from his papa. Not only did he fully understand, but he was able to articulate it to anyone who happened to be listening. I perceived that my grandson is going to be a gifted teacher. And of course that makes me very proud. (in a godly sort of way.)

Wednesday, October 18, 2006

God-casting

Did you know that all of my Sunday sermons are now available through my webpage www.barrybuzza.com ?

When you get there click on AUDIO PROGRAMS, then click on DOWNLOAD MP3 and you can either download onto your MP3 player or simply play it through your computer speaker. The notes for each Sunday's message are always available to read or print from our northsidechurch.ca web page.

I'd love to hear your comments through this blogspot, or if you have any things you don't understand or questions that come to mind, just jot me a note here or on my personal email bbuzza@northsidechurch.ca. As another alternative, all our sermons are available from our church. Just call (604)942-7711 or email Linda Kennedy @ lkennedy@northsidechurch.ca. I'm looking forward to hearing from you.

Monday, October 16, 2006

The Century Plant


In the Southwest USA mountainous deserts, lives a large tree-like flower called a Century Plant. It actually does not take a hundred years to grow, but it does grow very slowly. After the Century plant reaches a height of about 6 feet and a width of 12 feet, it stops growing for approximately 25 years. There it stays until one day 20 or 30 years later, inexplicably the plant starts to grow again.

As if beckoned by an inaudible voice, a trunk-like asparagus shaped stem shoots out of the waiting plant. From that stem, at a rate of about 6 or 7 inches a day, the Century plant shoots up to an amazing height of 30 to 40 feet over the following 2 months. Then it produces a beautiful yellow floral crown on top that lasts for 3 weeks. Amazing!

The Century plant is a good picture of the way we as Christians mature. Sometimes we think that we should just keep moving forward without interruption from the day we receive Jesus' gift of life on. But not so. There are often times when the Holy Spirit says to us "OK stop here for an undisclosed season, deepen your roots, and wait! I'll tell you when to go forward and it will likely come when you least expect it!" Isaiah said it well, "They that wait upon the Lord will rise up like eagles, they shall run and not grow weary. They shall walk and not faint." Maybe this is one of those times for you. God is teaching you one of the most difficult lessons in the Christian life-- to wait.

Church as a shopping Mall

Several years ago, when I was writing my thesis for my Master of Ministry degree, the subject that I chose was The Church is like a Shopping Mall. The idea was that I was trying to find a suitable metaphor to describe the North American church. Every time I go to visit Asia, I see again how different we are from the Eastern way of thinking. I guess there is both good and bad in our differences--kind of like our divergent family cultures.

One of those differences is The Eastern view of life as being group (family, tribe, or neighbourhood) orientated compared to our Western value of individualisation and independance. It affects our marriages, our families, churches and communities. The Shopping Mall concept is a picture of a family going to the Mall. They arrive at 10 AM, discuss their plans at the door and then divide up. Mom goes to the Department store to fill her list of to dos, daughter heads to the GAP to look at jeans, son hits the Video arcade and dad looks for the electronics store ;;;;; (actually I usually head for the food fair to find a quiet spot to read and drink a coffee)

On Thursday evening I was at the Church and remembered my paper that I'd written. I was there to teach my life Purpose class with an alert group of young adults, Our Computer Team were strategizing how to improve communications in another spot, the Grief group were in the Prayer room working through their challenges; there was a group meeting in the sanctuary learning some concepts of prayer as well as practising what they were teaching, the 12 step recovery groups were meeting downstairs and the Marriage course was going on in the other campus. It seems like every evening there is a full parking lot as different needs are being met in different ways. I'm not sure that I like this individuality as much as the more Jewish concept of family, but we have to meet our society where we are. That's the approach that Jesus took.

Our weekend


This weekend was our daughter Kelly's 35 th birthday so her husband Tom asked us if we would look after their 3 kids while they went away for a short vacation to Seattle. Of course we complied. It's our privilege to spend more time with Alex, Maxwell and Princess Victoria.

Weekends are a fairly demanding time for me so most of the work of caring for the children falls on Susan's shoulders. She's the best Nana in the world. Here's some pictures from our album. Madeline came to visit and play Princess--we also got to watch Beauty and the Beast and Cinderella as a double
feature together on Sunday afternoon.
The boys busied themselves with soccer games, Video games, piano practice and bugging their Papa. We had a wonderful and exhausting weekend, remarking on the way home how glad we are that we had our children when we were youngsters!

On the way home we stopped at Jeremy's and Kristy's home to help unload from top of their van Rooney's new doghouse. It looked so funny to have his house on the roof, I had to snap a picture.

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

Cars


A young teen had just gotten his driver's permit and inquired of his father,
an evangelist, if they could discuss the use of the car.

His father took him into his study and said to the teen, "I'll make a deal
with you, son. You bring your grades up from a C to a B average, study your
Bible more, get your hair cut, and we'll talk about the car."

Well, the teen thought about it for a moment and decided he would settle for
the offer, and they agreed on it.

After about 6 weeks, the boy came back and again asked his father about
using the car.

Again, they went to the study, where his father said, "Son, I'm real proud
of you. You brought your grades up, and I've observed that you've been
studying your Bible more, and participating a lot more in the Bible study
class on Sunday morning. But, I'm real disappointed, since you haven't
gotten your hair cut."

The young man paused a moment, and then said, "You know, Dad, I've been
thinking about that, and I've noticed in my studies of the Bible that Samson
had long hair, John the Baptist had long hair, Moses had long hair, and
there's even a strong argument that Jesus had long hair."

His father replied, "You're right son. Did you also notice that they all
walked everywhere they went?"

Happy Thanksgiving

On Monday, Thanksgiving Day, Susan and I prepared a lavish Turkey dinner with all the trimmings. ( Susan is the best pie maker ever!) to take over to our daughter's home for a family celebration. We have so much to be thankful for in our home, beginning with Jesus, and extending through all of our grandchildren, so Thanksgiving is very important as a tradition for us. Added to the holiday, we've always celebrated Kelly's Birthday on this same weekend. This one is #35, so she always got special attention on Thanksgiving Monday.

But we all have to move aside for our children. So when her and Tom's son Maxwell was born on October 8, six years ago, he was added to the star list. Here are a couple of pictures from our family diary. The kids are at an age now where they all play together. Madeline and Victoria can usually be found dressing up as princesses and the boys are into making strange Lego creations. That we all got to eat and talk in relative peace.

After the festivities, presents and cleanup, Jordan and I went to work. He loves to help Papa do whatever is assigned as our project for the day. On this Thanksgiving, our job together was to replace the taps in Kristy's and Jeremy's kitchen sink.

After the good day we spent together, Susan and I drove Gramma home and headed to our house to sit and relax together before bed. Thankyou God for the gift of family!

Shane's and Becky's Wedding


On Sunday Susan and I had a rare privilege. We sat together at a friend's wedding. Terry Janzen has been my dear friend and associate pastor for about 20 years, and he officiated at the wedding of one of his former associate pastor's wedding, while we got to soak up the ambience of the very beautiful and historic St Peter's Anglican church downtown Vancouver, and enjoy the delightful ceremony.

Another reason the wedding was so meaningful to us is that Shane and his family were among the first adherents of Northside Church 27 years ago. For all those years we 've had the delight of watching Shane and his sisters grow from infancy into maturity. Shane's eldest sister, Caralee is married to our nephew David, and Tawny his 2nd sister, is married to Ryan whom we also have known forever. The group of them are among the scores of a new generation of strong leaders in our church. Becky also is the lovely daughter of friends and adherents of Northside for at least 20 years. That's why Sunday was such a proud and happy day for us.

The wedding was perfect. After a rainy morning, the sun shone brightly down on the handsome couple. Added to the bevy of gorgeous bridesmaids and dashing groomsmen, were 6 of Shane's and Becky's young nephews and neices. They ranged from under 2 to about 6 years old but behaved like little angels.

Shane and Becky you have a strong and healthy history. May God richly bless your happy future together.

Saturday, October 07, 2006

Fall has arrived

It's official, Fall has come. Even though the sun is still shining here around our home, today was the last day that I had to take all the flowers out of our back garden, mow and trim the grass and prune the plants. It seemed a shame because the annuals are as lovely as they were in mid August, but it had to be done. I do tend to get a bit ruthless when I have shears in my hand-- Our trees are reminecent of the short hair cut my barber gave me last week, but its all good!

There are at least two benefits to the Autumn trimming I did today. One I was reminded of as I taught Pentateuch this week. We were looking at Noah's adventures through his flood season, and I commented on the covenant which God made with him. He said, among other things, that there would always be springtime and harvest, summer and winter. That's the way God designed life to be. We need the dark cold winters just as much as we need the bright and warm summer seasons. I'm quite looking forward to the rain and longer nighttime.

Then secondly, pruning is as good for our plants as discipline is for our kids. As much as it hurts us parents, we would not love our children if we did not discipline them. I loved my plants so much today that I shaved them with vigor.

Next Spring, Susan will lovingly look at me and say, "Wow Honey, you were so wise to cut our beautiful plants so ruthlessly!"

But meanwhile she'll be home from shopping in a few minutes and exclaim "What have you done? Our colorful garden is gone!"

When she says that I'll smile and say "Bald is beautiful." Then she'll laugh and it will all be ok.

Thursday, October 05, 2006

Elders 2

Old Men (Elders)


I’ve been asked from time to time to comment on my interpretation of biblical Elders, and how we apply it in our own church life—so here’s a brief overview of my thoughts.

In Old Testament times older men (and women) of a community were known as elders. The governed the family-centered communities and made all major decisions.

Moses would often call the elders together to keep them informed of news from God. Exodus 4:29&39 Then Moses and Aaron went and assembled all the elders of the sons of Israel; and Aaron spoke all the words which the LORD had spoken to Moses He then performed the signs in the sight of the people. Or to give directions from God, Exodus 12:21 Then Moses called for all the elders of Israel and said to them, "Go and take for yourselves lambs according to your families, and slay the Passover lamb.

At Mount Sinai, he had seventy elders with him. Moses did not record how the seventy were chosen. Later, his journal says that, “He gathered seventy men of the elders of the people. (Numbers 11:25) He stationed them around the Tabernacle and they prophesied.

2. Under the rule of the Israelite kings, elders still functioned, along with tribal heads, and patriarchal leaders, for spiritual leadership. I Kings 8:1 Then Solomon assembled the elders of Israel and all the heads of the tribes, the leaders of the fathers' households of the sons of Israel, to King Solomon in Jerusalem, to bring up the ark of the covenant of the LORD from the city of David, which is Zion.

Each town had their own group of elders. I Samuel 16:4 So Samuel did what the LORD said, and came to Bethlehem And the elders of the city came trembling to meet him and said, "Do you come in peace?” Ezra 10:14 "Let our leaders represent the whole assembly and let all those in our cities who have married foreign wives come at appointed times, together with the elders and judges of each city, until the fierce anger of our God on account of this matter is turned away from us."

3. After Israel’s return from exile in Babylon, the elders made up a ruling group called the Sanhedrin. They were the governing council of Jews.

4. In Jesus’ time the elders were still respected as community leaders. They joined with the priests and scribes in opposition to Jesus’ ministry. Matthew 27:12 And while He was being accused by the chief priests and elders, He did not answer.

5. After Jesus’ resurrection, in the churches elders were appointed from each congregation. Acts 14:23 When they had appointed elders for them in every church, having prayed with fasting, they commended them to the Lord in whom they had believed. Paul the Apostle and his team seemed to do the appointing.

6. The Greek term presbuteros, from where we get the word presbytery, simply means an old man. It was also used of older women. Presbuterion was an assembly of older men. (Interestingly, the NAS Bible translators, who seem to have a bias against women elders, translated the feminine word as old women rather than women elders (I Timothy 5:2).) Church history tells us that anyone over forty years old was considered to be an elder, and was therefore given special recognition and respect.

7. The terms bishop (overseer – episcope) and elder were used interchangeably in the New Testament church. See Acts 20:17 with Acts 20:28, and also Titus 1:5 with Titus 1:7. A high bar was set for spiritual leaders in both I Timothy 3:1-7 and Titus 1:6-9 by the Apostle Paul. Their duties involved spiritual oversight of the congregation and teaching of the Word.

8. God used the word elders to describe the spiritual heads of heaven. Twenty-four elders sit around the throne of God. They seem to be leaders of worship. Revelation 5:8 When He had taken the book, the four living creatures and the twenty-four elders fell down before the Lamb, each one holding a harp and golden bowls full of incense, which are the prayers of the saints.

APPLICATION:

Because the cultures of Moses’ and Jesus’ days were so different from our own, applying eldership in our North American culture is difficult. The picture of eldership in the New Testament is also vague. Perhaps the reason for the little explanation is two-fold:

  • Everyone, Christian and pagan alike, understood the respected place of elders in community life and so explanation would have been redundant.
  • Perhaps eldership was never intended by God to have a legalistic application. We should use elders within our own context and traditions as they can serve us best.

There are three main styles of government in churches today:

1. Most common is a democratic system. (The word democratic means rule of the people or mob-rule.) Because our Canadian and American governmental systems are designed as democracies, Christians have adapted political democracies to the Church. We call this a Congregational system of government.


They work like this: Any major issues must be agreed upon by a majority of members. To make governing easier, the congregation of members vote for men (usually men only qualify in Congregational churches) or women whom they feel qualify to represent them and their ideas.

The Board of Representatives carries the weight of rulership in the church. They (or a specially appointed search committee) hire a pastor, and the pastor-leaders work under the covering at the discretion of the Board.

The Board are elected for a term of office by the membership and are accountable to the membership.

2. Many churches operate by Eldership in leadership. These are called Presbyterian styled churches.

Although systems vary from church to church, typically the Elders, who are considered spiritual leaders, usually older men, are elected (or appointed) by the membership. Terms may be limited or perpetual. They operate somewhat like the Senate of our countries.

The lead pastor may be one of the board of elders. He will meet with them regularly, perhaps weekly, to discuss all the business and ministry of the church.

Often different elders will carry unique assignments e.g., finance, facilities, worship and music, youth, children, etc. The elders will make most decisions and are trusted by the congregation.

Other churches use an Episcopal model (Bishop-led) which runs top-down, rather than bottom-up. The Roman Catholic and Anglican churches use this system. Roman Catholics, for example fall under the leadership of the Pope, his Cardinals, Archbishops, bishops, priests, etc. Decisions are made at the top levels and the congregation does not have much say.


4. In Foursquare churches, we use what we call a modified Episcopal style of government. In a diagram it would look like this:

Note well that each of the four systems I’ve mentioned can work well or poorly. The reason is that each system is composed of flawed people. Each would consider their system a theocracy (God-ruled). God rules through the congregation, a Board, Eldership, or pastor. Each has positives and strengths but also has weaknesses.

Pastors are chosen by the Unit Supervisors. Church councils are chosen however the individual church decides, by election or by selection. The Council serves at the pleasure of the pastor as counselors to him or her. They serve in a limited term (4 – 6 years) and help make decisions on finance, facilities and business. They are not a ruling board, but should nevertheless be highly respected.

In our church (Northside Church) we select council members of various ages (20’s to 60’s), occupations, both men and women. They have a two-year term and may serve three terms. As Lead Pastor, I submit to their counsel, just as I, as a husband, submit to my wife’s counsel. Nevertheless, I carry the final voice in our congregation and therefore set the vision and direction of our church.

Elders in our church are also submissive and supportive of the pastoral office. In our church I call anyone, over forty, who has a good reputation and is a maturing believer, an elder. We have perhaps two hundred elders whom I can call together to give counsel on future plans and vision. We may meet three or four times a year and they are the first to be informed about any major change. They do not vote, but all have freedom to express their thoughts and ideas. We would pray together for God’s mind on new direction.

Associate Pastors, in our congregation, are chosen by the Lead Pastor or Executive Pastor. They are then hired by the Church Council, their salary is set by the Church Council and they can be dismissed only by the Church Council. Dismissal for any pastor could come because of immorality, heresy or inability to perform their duties.

In addition to the larger eldership of Northside Church, each pastor is expected to choose four to six elders who know him or her personally, and who can watch over their spiritual, emotional, mental and physical health and well-being. The relationship between elders and pastors must be open, frank, loving and godly.

The term Pastor is also unclear in our New Testaments. We use the term to describe the spiritual leaders of a congregation, but perhaps that is not accurate. Pastors (used interchangeably with elders and bishops) in the Bible seem to be caretakers of small home churches. They likely all had other jobs.

Pastors in Ephesians 4:11 are gifted caregivers, like shepherds are of sheep, of a group of people. Our home group leaders and counselors serve more as pastors than some of the men and women we call Pastors.

My point is that the Bible model of Church structure is unclear. It was a home-church structure in a family-centered society. We live in a much different world today, and must find a system that works for us. We should be very careful not to be judgmental of other systems.

Acts 17:24-28 "The God who made the world and all things in it, since He is Lord of heaven and earth, does not dwell in temples made with hands; nor is He served by human hands, as though He needed anything, since He Himself gives to all people life and breath and all things; and He made from one man every nation of mankind to live on all the face of the earth, having determined their appointed times and the boundaries of their habitation, that they would seek God, if perhaps they might grope for Him and find Him, though He is not far from each one of us; for in Him we live and move and exist, as even some of your own poets have said, 'For we also are His children.'

Ultimately, we would all agree that Church should be a Theocracy (God-ruled).

Psalm 23:1 The LORD is my shepherd, I shall not want.

He is our Shepherd (pastor), the Guardian of our souls.

I Peter 2:25 For you were continually straying like sheep, but now you have returned to the Shepherd and Guardian of your souls. (Jesus)

We, (pastors, bishops, elders, leaders) serve at his pleasure and bidding to do his will. Our call and our gifting from God will determine what his will is.




Sunday, October 01, 2006

Life Centre


The first book that I wrote as a series of letters to Kelly in 1999, was Life Journey. It is an easy to read commentary on Psalm 23 designed to help the reader get to know God and his plans for our lives.

Because Life Journey is largely about Father God, I felt it necessary to write another complimentary book about Jesus, the way to God the Father. That book, which I wrote while in Mexico a few years ago, is called Life Centre. Since it was first published, we've used it at Northside as a give away for anyone searching out a relationship with God. Over the years we've given away thousands of the little books. So ultimately, I had to get more printed. A friend of mine with connections in Asia suggested that I get it reprinted in China.

It has taken several months to pull off (the printing didn't take long, but the red tape between China and Canada has been a headache.) Finally last week Susan and I went through the very challenging work of getting the new books released from Canada customs and the docks. They are now safely in our possession. I've made the books available at a very inexpensive cost price to other churches to use as tools to introduce people to Jesus, so if any readers of this blog would like one, just email me and I'll send it to you for free. Blessings to you on your walk with God!

The Love Nuptials






On Saturday, I officiated at the last outdoor wedding of 2006. Friday was a gorgeous warm day out in Chilliwack at Minter Gardens, where we practised walking the aisle of the canopied garden in preparation for the next day's wedding.


Saturday was not quite so beautiful. It rained in the morning and the temperature dropped by about 10 degrees, but by the time Susan and I drove the 100 or so kms to Chilliwack the sun was trying desparately to shine. The wedding was wonderful. I haven't seen so many well dressed guests at a wedding for a long time. It really was a formal and elegant affair, for my friends Carsten Love and Kacey Clarke. I got to know this very handsome couple through Carsten's brother, whom I married a couple of years ago. (Derrick and Anita became the proud parents of lovely little Tianna Faith Love a few days ago.) Carsten and Kacie started attending our church when we began counselling earlier this year.

Kacie was gorgeous in her wedding gown as she walked the several hundred feet long Garden path. They are a truly sweet and fun couple to know, and like their name, are very easy to love. The reception was held in the Crystal Dining hall at Minter Gardens. What a delightful evening we were privileged to share with the happy couple!

Max's Birthday


Susan and I are making it a tradition to take each of our 6 grandchildren out for a date on their birthdays. Next Sunday, Max, who is Tom and Kelly's 2nd child, is turning 6, so we were off to his favorite restaurant, which happens to be A&W this week, shopping at Toys R Us and for cinnamin buns at Ikea.

We had a fun time learning about the many boy toys available for 8 year olds. Max scurried between Lego Knights, Batman, Bionicles, Army trucks, Ninja Turtles and Power Rangers. At Ikea, sitting on our high stools, we talked about the various pros and cons of each option while munching on their delicious cinnamon treats. Poor Max couldn't sleep on Friday night because he was so excited about the coming celebration.

Saturday, September 30, 2006

Passport continued....

It's difficult to get out of this country. Susan and I waited patiently, along with 3 million other applicants, on Monday to get our Passports renewed, and then the window finally opened. Hope was on the horizon at last! But alas, after our careful explanation of how we accidentally washed our Passports again, the agent was unmoved. Looking at us as if we just escaped from prison, she kindly said, "Sorry I can't help you. You are going to need clearance from a higher authority." (I should have told her that we have been approved by God Himself) Then she went away for a long time. After returning , our straight-faced friend announced to me that they could not renew my passport until I could provide proof that I was travelling, my exact itinerary and plans, and when I would return. Even after I would do that, because I am such a high risk it would take 8 weeks to process it. We left somewhat downhearted.

A while later the girl phoned Susan and apologized to her. She said they could do her passport right away but mine was still a problem. We stopped off on the way home to visit my friend James Moore, our M.P. On Monday, we'll go see our friendly agent again with my tickets and itinerary in hand. We'll see what happens.

Monday, September 25, 2006

passport


It's harder than one would imagine to get out of this country. To prepare for my trip to Thailand and the Philippines, I have to update my passport today and get my various shots redone tomorrow. When I returned from Asia last year, I let my passport slip through the wash while safely tucked in my jeans. Then shortly after, when Susan and I were in Barcelona, we had our new passports stolen. Besides the complicated process of travelling through Europe sans passports, we were considered suspect when we returned because of the double reapplication for new passports. Then in the spring, when we returned from Mexico, I did it again (I shouldn't confess too much lest my friends lose all confidence in my leadership ability) Into the wash they ended up again!

So having obtained special documents from our lawyer, saying we are really honest, upstanding Canadians, we're off again to the Passport office to hopefully regain credibility. God bless us!

East meets West


I love it when cultures blend. All marriages are actually a harmonizing of two very different cultures. Every family, as well as each ethnic group, has their own different traditions, behaviours and customs, so when ever two people come together in the intimacy of the marriage covenant, there are more adjustments to make than most of us expect. Then there is the fact that "women are from Venus" which makes the blending process even more interesting and fun.

On Saturday I officiated at the wedding of Chris Ransom and Kirby Chan. It was fascinating to hear about their wedding rituals, beginning with a Chinese Tea Ceremony in the morning. The girls had to begin preparations for the big day before 6 am. It wasn't all over till about midnight.

The wedding was beautiful,and afterwards the guests were invited by the family to a sumptious real Chinese feast. We kept eating, visiting, and celebrating for longer than I can remember any meal lasting. Kirby is always a gorgeous woman, but in Chinese tradition, she wore four different dresses for the different phases of the wedding. Her traditional silk gowns were stunning. Most important, and to me even more lovely than the decore, feasting or clothes, is the deep love that this couple has for each other and there well-rooted faith in God. Their marriage will be a shining testimony of God's love for all of us. May God enrich your relationship with his many promised blessings Chris and Kirby!

Sunday, September 17, 2006

God's little helper


One of the many lessons that I talked about with our church on Sunday, was that we must never forget that we are God's little helpers. We are in desparate need of his constant presence and power. It's far to easy, when you have been a Christian as long as I have, to slip into pride, and to think that we now know enough to get along without God constantly watching over our shoulders.

I used as an illustration, a scene from my own experience, this last week. I was working at Kristy's and Jeremy's home, building an oak mantle for their new fireplace. A few minutes after taking out my tools, along came 2 year old Jordan to help his Papa. Of course I encouraged him as we worked side by side. But the fact is that I really didn't need Jordan's help. Actually he was more in the way than a helper, but he used his plastic tools with sincerity and enthusiasm.

The reasons that I wanted Jordan to work beside me was that I love him so much, and he thankfully loves his Papa. The other reason is even more important--I, along with his parents, want Jordan to grow up to be a useful man and husband. It's my privilege to have him helping the best he can beside me. And that's just like my God. Of course he doesn't need me, but He loves me so much, and wants me to learn how to serve in my circle of influence, so I can one day sit beside Jesus and rule with Him for eternity. I like that!

My friend Lana


Almost 30 years ago, before Susan and I began our new little church that we were to call Northside Chapel, we moved out to Port Coquitlam and settled into a new neighbourhood. It wasn't long before we were privileged to meet one of our new neighbors--a precocious 2 year old named Lana Davidson.

In a couple of years, after our church began meeting at Lincoln Elementary School, one of the first families to join us was the Davidsons. They very soon became strong leaders . Now Lance and Joyce are among our most valued friends and elders. Meanwhile Lana has grown up!
First she became a leader in Kids church, then in youth, then as a greeter. A few years ago, Lana went on her first missions trip to Costa Rica And she was hooked!

Today, right after church where I had an opportunity to bless her one more time, Lana left to spend a year as a true-blue missionary in Costa Rica. We pray that God will protect Lana spirit, soul and body; anoint her with the power and wisdom of the Holy Spirit and enlarge her ministry farther than she could possibly imagine. We love you Lana, my little neighbour!

Saturday, September 16, 2006

Dancing with the King


Another baby has been born! That's the way I feel when I receive a new book from the printers. On tuesday my 13th book, Dancing with the King rolled of the presses. It is the 1st of three books about the Kingdom of God that will be completed about June of next year.

Dancing with the King is a series of teaching on the subject of our eternal purpose. It's so amazing to me that God, who is wholly self-sufficient, has invited us to sit on the throne beside him. We actually get to play a real part in the eternal destiny of people in our circle of influence. The book opens with a comparison of Cinderella with each of us who have been rescued from slavery and been invited to marry into the Royal family.

September's here

September is my favorite month. To me it's like Rosh Hashanna, the beginning of the Jewish New Year, and a season of great celebration. Summer has been good for me-- it's a rare privilege to be home with Susan almost every evening and we usually take a whole day every week just for ourselves. By the time July comes we are ready for the shift. But September has come and it is time to get into the busy and fulfilling Fall season.

I love Bible Study on Wednesday evenings. This new year we're beginning to walk slowly through the Gospels. A new group of enthusiasts joined me for the first of our weekly studies as we opened up the book of Matthew. The Gospels,which I also teach at our Bible College, are among my favorite Bible Books.

On both Wednesday, at PLBC, and on Thursdays at our church, I'm teaching how to find our life purpose. To me this series is among the most important life lessons we can ever learn. One day Jesus will ask us, "Did you do what I told you to do?" and hopefully we won't answer, "I didn't
even know what you expected of me. I thought I was here just to be happy and have a good life." I'll be making DVD's of the classes that I teach at PLBC so that the course will be available for small groups or use at home.

Then on Fridays I'm doing my very favorite thing--teaching the Torah (Pentateuch) to an enthusiastic class of Bible Students . Along with Sundays and miscellaneous other classes, it takes me a fair amount of time to study and prepare myself, so it's difficult to find the time I need to see people. I try to make my time with leaders a priority.

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

Taxing the Churches

Last Friday I received the following email from our esteemed councillor in Coquitlam, Richard Stewart, I have included it in it's length here, followed by my response to our mayor, Maxine Wilson of Coquitlam and her team of councillors individually. Following my letter to the mayor and councillors, I have included the replies I have received to date as well as the encouraging final letter from Council member Richard Stewart.


Re: Property Taxes on Churches

To Coquitlam Faith Communities:

City Council is about to review a policy that I believe is unfair, a policy that forces some churches to pay property taxes.

The issue arises because a local congregation undertook a court challenge of a 2004 Council policy, and the court has ordered Council to take another look at the issue.

The Westwood Congregation of Jehovah’s Witnesses recently took the City to court to challenge council’s 2004 policy that refused to extend to any new churches the property tax exemption enjoyed by established churches across the City.

A number of years ago, part of the parking lot for the Kingdom Hall on Dewdney Trunk Road was expropriated for the widening of Dewdney Trunk; when the congregation failed to get an adjacent piece of land rezoned to replace the expropriated parking lot, they were forced to relocate. They found an OCP-designated church site on Pipeline, applied for and received all necessary approvals and permits, and built their new building. But in July 2004, after the congregations had moved into their new church, City Council decided that the parking lots of new churches would no longer be exempt from property taxes.

Since 1881 in BC, churches and the land they sit on are exempt from property taxes. But effective 2004, the City will only exempt the land directly under any new church building, as they are required to do under the Community Charter; the rest of the property, including the parking lot, would be subject to tax. For the new Kingdom Hall, this means a tax bill of about $20,000 per year for the parking lot. And, to add insult to injury, since the parking lot is no longer exempt from property taxes, it is also subject to the new Translink Parking Tax.

Because existing churches are grandfathered, this policy doesn’t immediately affect my church, and it probably doesn’t affect yours unless it plans to expand in the near future. Nonetheless, I believe strongly that the policy is unfair, and needs to be repealed. Churches already pay for the utilities they use, like water and refuse collection; property taxes pay for a wide range of city services that churches do not use. As well, churches give contribute tremendously to our community in a number of ways, and I believe Council should abide by the spirit of the Community Charter and continue to exempt all churches from property taxes. At the next Committee meeting of City Council (this Monday, September 11), I intend to put forward a motion that Council rescind this policy, and that all churches in the City be exempt from property taxes on both the building and the ancillary land, parking areas, etc. Based on the results of that meeting, the matter will then be put before the next City Council meeting the following Monday, September 18.

I want to encourage residents of Coquitlam to let Council know of the strength of support there is in our community on this issue. I’ve included on the reverse the email addresses of all members of Council, as well as the fax number at City Hall, and would welcome your letters or emails on the issue.

Faith communities have had a longstanding right to tax exemption on their church properties, and I believe we can protect this important right by ensuring that all City Councillors understand how important the issue is for Coquitlam residents.

Yours truly,

Richard Stewart, Councillor
City of Coquitlam
Cell 604-603-4113

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September 8, 2006

Dear Mayor Maxine Wilson,

I am writing in reference to your up and coming discussion regarding the taxation of our city’s churches. I’m not sure why this subject would even come before council, considering the strong work that the several thousand church members do for Coquitlam, but perhaps if I were unaware of what churches and other service clubs do, I would question their tax exemption also.

Having served as a pastor in Coquitlam and Port Coquitlam for 27 years, and also in leadership of the Tri-City Ministerial Association, I am very much cognizant of the millions of dollars that our sixty Tri-City churches save taxpayers every year. Many people do not realize that churches and clubs function effectively as community centres in the cities.

We provide free counseling, children’s groups, nursery care, daycares, preschools, youth programs, single events, 12-Step groups, weddings, funerals, senior’s groups, sports teams, drug, alcohol and victim care classes, ESL classes, hospice, hospital and crisis care, dinners, groceries and clothes for those in need, assimilation and friendship of our entire populace, as well as spiritual guidance and nurture for thousands of our citizens.

Our buildings alone, save the city multiplied millions of dollars in construction of community centres. They, and hundreds of staff members, are totally paid for by the free will gifts of constituents. The amount of money the Christian church gives to provide services for all of our Tri-Cities is well over ½ million dollars every month. That money is given generously by the thousands of tax-paying adherents of our sixty churches to provide absolutely free community service to every person in our cities, regardless of age, racial origin or income.

This is not to mention that the fallout from crime, alcoholism, drug addiction, family breakdown and other multi-million dollar tax costs are reduced substantially by the work of Christian and community organizations.

Paying no property tax is a small perk which serves to encourage and stimulate the continuation or our service clubs and churches. Thank you Maxine Wilson, Councillors and citizens for your grace and wisdom in exempting churches, service clubs and mosques from paying property taxes.

Sincerely,

Barry Buzza
Lead Pastor
Northside Church
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From:
'Asmundson, Brent'
Sent: Fri Sep 8 19:46

To:

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Subject:
RE: Taxation of churches



Thank you for your email re: Church Taxation. I know the value of community work done by churches, as Daniela and I have attended your services at the Northside FourSquare Church and have seen the good work that you do. I do not agree with the previous council's decision, but I am going to be away until the 27th of September,I hope everthing works out.
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Dear Pastor Buzza,
Thank you for your e-mail. I wasn't on City Council when this policy was enacted. I don't agree with it and will be voting against it when it comes in front of Council in the next few weeks.
I'm fully aware and appreciative of the services and countless hours of volunteer work your congregation and others do for this community. I agree that a tax exemption for your church from the City is one way we can show our thanks for these good works.
I appreciated hearing from you. Please feel free to contact me any time.
Regards,
Doug Macdonell
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Barry,
Thank you for your letter.
I agree completely that community churches provide an essential service to all our residents and provide many services that benefit our community.
I firmly believe that when official organizations, groups and churches support the community they should be supported as much as possible.
If you would like to talk further about this, please call me at (604) 941-5937.
Sincerely,
Fin Donnelly
Councillor
City of Coquitlam
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September 11, 2006

Thank you for your email.

As you may be aware, I was a Mayor and a Council member for 24 years. During that time, we never ever had this problem as far as exempting churches from property tax. It was never an issue during my term. Last year’s Council, which I was not a member of, decided to attack certain places of worship.

I always opposed this kind of decision and always will.

Thank you,

Lou Sekora, Council Member
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Success!

I'm pleased to be able to report that at tonight's meeting of Committee of the Whole, Coquitlam City Council voted to accept my motion that churches once again be exempted from property taxes. The new policy is a reversal of a 2004 policy that placed a moratorium on new applicants for a "permissive property tax exemption", effectively denying the exemption to any churches that were not already on the list. If Council ratifies the new policy, all churches, mosques, temples and other "worship" buildings in Coquitlam will be treated equally, and will not be subject to taxation on their parking lots and landscaped areas.

I want to thank all those who sent letters on this subject, as I believe that a significant part of the reason for success in this first step was the number of articulate, respectful, and well-informed emails that Council members received in the past few days in support of the tax exemption.

What's next?

Tonight's vote puts the issue before Council at next Monday evening's Council meeting (starting at 7 pm, and televised on Shaw starting about an hour later). At next week's meeting, the nine members of Council will be asked to ratify the recommendation; if they do (and I hope and pray that they will), all Coquitlam faith communities will once again be exempt from property taxes on their church property.

It's important to remember that the majority (5) of Council members were on the 2004 City Council that adopted the moratorium, and that only six of nine Council members were present at tonight's vote. So the issue is still in question. It would be best if Council continued to receive letters and emails in favour of an equitable tax exemption policy, to ensure that the high level of support remains evident over the coming week. This may also influence other local governments in BC who may be considering adopting something similar to Coquitlam's 2004 policy.

Here are the email addresses for Council:
Mayor Maxine Wilson mwilson@coquitlam.ca
Councillor Brent Asmundson
basmundson@coquitlam.ca
Councillor Fin Donnelly
fdonnelly@coquitlam.ca
Councillor Louella Hollington
lhollington@coquitlam.ca
Councillor Barrie Lynch
blynch@coquitlam.ca
Councillor Doug Macdonell
dmacdonell@coquitlam.ca
Councillor Mae Reid
mreid@coquitlam.ca
Councillor Lou Sekora
lsekora@coquitlam.ca
Councillor Richard Stewart
rstewart@coquitlam.ca
Or by mail at Coquitlam City Hall, 3000 Christmas Way, Coquitlam V3B 7N2

If you have any questions about this or other issues before Council, please give me a call.

Again, thank you.

Richard




Saturday, September 02, 2006

Trace and Sara's Wedding


One of the things that I enjoy most about officiating at weddings is the several weeks of premaital counselling that I and the bride and groom go through together. Trace and Sara came to me several months ago to ask me if I would do their wedding. Both of them had come through recovery in our Higher Ground ministry, and so understood the gripping power of drugs, and also the overcoming power of God's rich love, acceptance and forgiveness. I've found that those who have successfully navigated through recovery for several months have a very deep appreciation for the love and grace of Jesus. This couple certainly does.

Trace and Sara have been delightful to get to know, to laugh with, to cry with, and to see them truly become one. They have already come through some very deep valleys, which have served to strengthen their determination to maintain strong Christ-like roots. I'm thankful for the privilege of knowing them and pray for God's powerful blessing on their marriage.

Joseph's Excellant Bad Day





Three years ago, after I finished publishing my book, Life Purpose, I wrote my first children's book, Joseph's Excellant Bad Day. I actually came up with the story from a combination of true things that had happened in my experiences. When I needed something substantial to teach a class of young children for my Finding my Life Purpose class, I wound the memorieas together to make a story.

This Sunday on September 3, just before school begins we had all the children sit through the entire church service, so I told this story. Thanks to Jennifer Croft for coming with Jacob and me to take the pictures we used in the power-point presentation.

Joseph's story winds around my purchase of a scraggly, near-dead apple tree. Just as I have watched my grandchildren and children mature into the purpose for which they were created, I observed this tree grow from a scrawny branch into a very healthy and prolific fruit tree.

The 7 lessons that I taught my pretend grandson (played by my real grandson, Jacob) are:

#1 God made me to be unique. I was created for a special purpose.

#2 It takes time to become all that God has planned for us to be. There will be fruitful times, as well as seasons when it seems like nothing is happening.

#3 Our purpose is revealed progressively throughout life – like putting a jigsaw puzzle together.

#4 There will always be forces which try and stop us, or keep us from our purpose. We must be alert and ready to fight negative forces.

#5 Dry and difficult times help to press us closer to the place where our refreshment and nourishment come from.

#6 It’s what’s inside, who we are when nobody is watching, that will make us truly successful and fulfilled.

#7 As we move into our purpose, we will not only become everything that God has planned, but people all around us will feel better, and do better, because of us.